why do people dont treasure what they have till they completely lose it?

i reallie dont understand smtimes.. yu are reallie contented when yu finally got what yu want and need.. but after a while, yu kinda forget how hard yu fought to get it and how much efforts yu have put in into getting that particular smthing..and of course not forgetting the effort of keeping it.. but nevertheless, after a while, yu still kinda take into granted what yu have now and chuck it aside..forgetting the value of that smthing and over time, kinda forget the importance of it in your life....then when smthing happened suddenly which made you lose that smthing, yu ALWAYS regret what yu've been doin..by neglecting it....

its reallie sad that after that, pple always make resolution that things will get better.. ill pay more attention to it and blaah blah blah but pple ALWAYS repeat their mistake and ended up in the same place again and again and again..

smtimes i reallie think life is just reallie unfair and its reallie hard to actuallie live in this world.. i would prefer to be a baby FOREVER where yu dont need to worry abt anything AT ALL.. the older pple get, the more problems they have... and when most of those problems are settled, pple are always faced with EVEN BIGGER problems.. it reallie never ends.... it goes in a cycle.. so basically yu just live to solve your problems and hope to God that yu wont be encountered with the same problems again.. its TRUE that yu wont encounter the same prob again, even if they do, it'll be easy to solve because yu have experienced it before and thus know how to best handle the matter...but OTHER problems will arise...

and apparently, the experience thing doesnt reallie work in LOVE matter...i really wonder why.. i guess when the problems involved your emotion, yu reallie cant run away from YOURSELF and the inner you.. eventhough yu have encountered the problems many times.. yu still come back to being yourself and think with you heart rather than thinking with your head...

just a question to ponder...would yu prefer to think with your head (ie rationally) or with your heart (ie emotionally)... both have their good and bad points...

i smtimes wonder why pple actuallie wanna be born in this world.. the world is not a reallie good place to live..i think